Dear Friends,

Most of us are aware that Barbara Bush, former First Lady and husband of President George H. W. Bush, died on Tuesday. Some of you have noted that her funeral will be held at an Episcopal church in Houston – St. Martin’s Church. Barbara Bush was in fact, an active Episcopalian. While in Washington D.C, she and her husband were members of St. Columba’s Church, where she served on the Altar Guild. The Bush family also has a long connection with St. Anne’s Church near their summer compound in Kennebunkport, Maine.

Many people have commented on her compassion and life of service to her family and the nation, as well as her willingness to speak in frank and honest ways about matters that concerned her. Yes, that frankness created problems at times. I still remember the time during the 1984 presidential campaign, when she made a joking but disparaging comment about Geraldine Ferraro, the first ever female vice presidential candidate. What I love about Barbara Bush is that she quickly realized her mistake and offered a heartfelt apology.

Given the way so many pundits, politicians, and provocateurs have broken down the norms of civil engagement and discourse, acknowledging one’s mistake can seem almost a quaint notion. But of course, it is one of the marks of a Christian. We do it all the time when we confess our sins. To say I am sorry. To say I have made a mistake.

I am certain that Barbara Bush’s Christian faith shaped her life. She lived her life fully. She freely offered her love, many times in sacrificial ways, to her husband, her family, her church, and her nation. We will miss her, but oh, how grateful we can be for her witness.

Faithfully,

Tom