A Tree Grows in Charlestown

IMG_4020Dear Friends,

In 2012, our children planted a dogwood tree at the front entrance to our garden, in thanksgiving for the nearly decade-long ministries of Art Schnitzel and Simon Ringrose, our Godly Play teachers. It was a beautiful addition to the garden, and a lasting way of saying “thank you” to two dedicated teachers.

The winter of 2014-15 was not kind to the tree. Massive amounts of snow caused considerable damage, and some feared that the tree would not survive. But a tree grows in Charlestown! Bowed but not broken, the tree is recovering and blooming for us this spring. Our gardeners,  especially Francie Malo and Rosemary Kverek, have lovingly tended to the tree, and its blossoms have been greeting us for the last week or two as we have arrived at church.

“Resilience” is a word that comes to mind as I look at that tree. Buried under feet of snow, many of its branches were broken. Some of the harm came from persons unaware of what they were doing. One morning, I hurried out of the office to stop a young couple who was digging out their parked car. They had no idea that they were piling snow onto a tree that had already mostly disappeared. They were quite apologetic, but some damage was done.

IMG_4022“Resilience” is a word that come to mind when I think of our lives as Christians. To be a Christian and commit ourselves to Christ does not mean that we will some be protected from the challenges and vicissitudes of life. Just read the book of Acts, and you will see how quickly Christians can get into trouble. Yet down through the centuries, from those earliest followers to martyrs of today, followers of Jesus have found again and again a kind of resillience to live out their lives, not only with endurance, but even with joy. The late William Sloan Coffin was fond of saying, “God promises us minimum protection, maximum security.”

When the blooming dogwood greets me as I arrive at the office, it brings a smile to my face. I give thanks for its beauty, and for its resilience. And I hope that my life can offer a sign to the world of what faithfulness in the midst of it all can mean.

Faithfully,

Tom

In a Time of Waiting

wild rosesDear Friends,

As many of you know, Thomas and I returned from North Carolina at the end of last week, after his participation in the candidate “Walkabouts” held by the Diocese of Western North Carolina. As one of four nominees to be their next bishop, Thomas participated in public presentations where members of the diocese could meet and listen to all four candidates. Now, the diocese will be about their work of discernment in preparation for the election of their next bishop on June 25th.

Many of you have asked questions about how it all went. I can say with assurance that we were welcomed with graciousness and warmth, and that all four candidates and their spouses drew close to each other as we traveled about the diocese. It was abundantly clear that the work of the Search Committee and Transition Committee is grounded in prayer, and I know I felt the support of many of your prayers.

One question I cannot answer is, “Do you think Thomas may be elected?”.  We really have no idea, but I understand the desire to ask that question. Whether he is elected will certainly have an effect on our life together. Right now we are moving through a month of uncertainty. It can be an uncomfortable time, since we cannot really predict our future together.

This morning, however, I awoke with the realization that this month is really no different than any other time in which we are together. We never can predict our future. Yet I know I tend to go through each day with the false assumption that this day will be like the one before,  that I can always rely on people being there for me as I will be for them, and that my life will not be subject to unexpected changes or disruptions in the plans I have made.

As uncertain as these days are, they are causing me to be more aware of the life I have been given by God, and to be more grateful for each moment I have. When faced with questions we cannot answer, we can draw back and be tentative. Or, we can embrace the lives and moments we are given.

I am reminded of the poem “Roses”, by Mary Oliver:

Everyone now and again wonders about
those questions that have no ready
answers: first cause, God’s existence,
what happens when the curtain goes
down and nothing stops it, not kissing,
not going to the mall, not the Super
Bowl.

“Wild roses,” i said to them one morning.
“Do you have the answers? And if you do,
would you tell me?”

The roses laughed softly. “Forgive us,”
they said. “Bus as you can see, we are
just now entirely busy being roses.”

We do not have all the answers to what life may bring. But for just now, I am going to seek to be “entirely busy” being the disciple of Jesus Christ and child of God that I am called to be.

Faithfully,

Tom

 

Looking Ahead in Faith

TNM HeadshotDear Friends,

On Sunday afternoon, I will be joining my spouse Thomas Brown and traveling to North Carolina, where we will be spending much of the week. As many of you know, Thomas was recently selected as one of four nominees for the election of the next bishop of the Diocese of Western North Carolina. We will be traveling throughout the diocese next week for their “Meet the Candidates” events , sometimes referred to as “Walkabouts.” These sessions provide an opportunity for members of the diocese to personally meet all of the candidates. A number of you have asked me questions about this process, and how it came about, and I thought it would be helpful for all of us to share some more information about what will be happening in the next two months.

Q: How are the names of candidates for bishops determined?
A: When a diocese announces a search for a new bishop, names of possible candidates can be submitted by anyone. A close friend and colleague of Thomas submitted his name, and encouraged Thomas to consider being part of the discernment process.  Thomas, with my full support, let his name go forward, knowing well that either he or the diocese could  choose at any time  not to continue the mutual discernment.

Q: Is the search for a bishop like the search for a rector?
A: In some ways, the processes are similar. A discernment committee (sometimes called a search committee) was established by the diocese, and their job was to establish a profile for the diocese and to identify and interview potential candidates. What differs is that while a rector discernment committee is often asked to bring one, or at the most, two candidates to the vestry for a final decision, the diocesan discernment committee was asked to identify several candidates for a slate. In the case of the Diocese of Western North Carolina, a slate of four candidates was announced (the profiles of all the candidates can be found here.)

Q: Who elects a bishop?
A: The bishop of any diocese of the Episcopal Church is elected by a special Electing Convention of the diocese. The members of the convention are the same as those who meet each year for the annual diocesan convention: all clergy who are canonically resident in the diocese, and two lay delegates from each parish in the diocese. When our diocese elected the Rev. Alan Gates in 2014, Steve Spinetto and Scott Squillace were the delegates from St. John’s, and Dick Simeone, Lyn Brakeman and I voted as clergy of the diocese.

Q: How is a bishop elected?
A: Clergy and lay votes, taken by secret ballot,  are counted separately. In order to be elected, a candidate must receive a simple majority of clergy votes and a simple majority of lay votes. After the votes are counted, the results are announced. If no candidate is successful in achieving the required majorities, after an initial ballot, subsequent ballots are taken until someone has done so.

Q: What are the next steps in the process?
A: As I mentioned above, Thomas and I, along with the other candidates and spouses,  will be attending four different “Meet the Candidates” presentations next week. Delegates, as well as anyone else interested, are welcome to attend these events. Candidates have a chance to introduce themselves, and move amongst smaller groups  to individually answer questions posed to them. The time in North Carolina also gives the candidates and spouses time to learn more about the diocese.

Q: When is the election?
A:  Delegates will meet in Asheville on Saturday June 25th for the election. The diocese expects their new bishop to begin work there in September, and the consecration of the new bishop will be on October 1.

Q: What does this mean for us?
A:  The next six weeks does create some uncertainty as we think about our life together in the year ahead.  If Thomas is elected, I would begin a conversation with the vestry about the timing of my own departure, which would likely be sometime in the early fall. If there is no election, both Thomas and I will gladly continue in the positions to which we have been called, and to which we are committed.

Despite any uncertainly, I do not believe that we need to put any of our ministries, or our hopes and dreams for what we can be doing here at St. John’s, “on hold.” The vestry, for example, will be engaging in strategic planning at a vestry retreat in September, and I will be sharing more in the month to come about how all of us can assist them in planning for our future. We have been so abundantly blessed here at St. John’s. I ask you to continue to hold this parish, its leadership, and all of its members in your prayers as we move forward. Of some things we can never be certain of, but we can be assured that God hears us, leads us, and sustains us in all things.

Faithfully,

Tom